“Men are visual, women are not.” This is what every book on pornography, and male/female physiology told me. “Men are visual, women are not.” This is the phrase that ran through my head when I overheard female high school classmates talk about the baseball boy’s uniforms or Taylor Lautners shirtless scenes in the Twilight movie series. “Men are visual, women are not.” Is probably a phrase you’ve heard as well, and I want to let you in on a little secret…it’s a lie. Men are MO