- - - 1) My church doesn’t look at porn. I mean, I guess you could look at the stats in a negative light. Sure, the numbers say that 64% of Christian men and 15% of Christian women view pornography at least once a month but surely that is not happening in your church. The men and women you worship along side are stronger and more mature than those who struggle with this sin in other churches. In another study, they found that 13.9% of young men never view pornography. I t

- - - If you have struggled with porn or keeping any secret from a significant other, you know that telling them or confessing can be one of the scariest things you could ever do in a relationship. Your heart beings to race, you get a lump in your throat, and you might even feel like passing out when the times comes to confess. What makes things worse is knowing how your spouse is going to take the news. Will there be crying? Most likely. Will you have broken the trust h

- - - After 13 years of marriage I wouldn’t say that I am an expert when it comes to marriage, but I do feel like I know awful lot about the subject. I can say this, not because of my ability to perfectly navigate every circumstance that has come our way but because we (I) have made a lot of mistakes along the way in those 13 years. With all of that set aside, I am confident in saying that trust and respect are the foundation on which a good marriage is built. Trust and re